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9310828 tn?1403011088

Pregnancy hormones

Ok, so this app is for support, and advice only right? Why are their so many women worried about other women's pregnancy??? Every woman is different, every doctor is different, and we all come from different backgrounds. Don't want to offend anyone, but I do think we should keep it positive and worry about our own pregnancies rather than speak on someone else's
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7607165 tn?1395780125
Agree who cares if ppl wanna get induced at 34 weeks who cares if ppl wanna hv sex to rush baby ..listen I dont care what anyone does .. just lets be supportive we are all in the same boat !!!!! Have ur opinions thats great but u if u dont like a comment by pass.. But definitely agree
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8216409 tn?1405754433
First off. Having more kids does Not make u a better person for information.  Ppl come on here. As some 1 can have 4 perfect pregnancys and someone could have alot of different issues with their first. I'll go with someone who experienced my issues then someone with 4 kids and no issues... ppl come here to ask questions,  not to be ignored. But to get some suggestions.  And that's what some ppl do.  Most of the time I see ppl say call ur dr. What's wrong with that?   If u don't like answers don't read them.  End of story. Why are ppl so worried about what others are posting on here.  If u THINK u know everything.  Then obviously ur just using this app for ur amusement.  I am a first time mom. But have been through a lot with this pregnancy so if I know about it I tell them what happened to me. To give some insight.  What I hate on this site is ppl asking dumb questions like.  What hospital is ur baby going to be born at?  That's no one's business,   and about boyfriends cheating.  What's that have to do with ur pregnancy.  Yet u guys are worried about ppl asking serious questions and worried about the answers... makes no sense.. this is not meant for the girl who posted. More so to heavenlyhash...
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Most people are positive.  The trouble happens when people feel that someone is being negative just because they don't agree. Not everyone is going to have the same opinion,  and some people are just plain wrong.  It's also important to realize that things change over time, advice that was good 10+years ago won't necessarily hold up based off of today's research.
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I agree I personally  use this app because I'm a single mother going through a pregnancy alone and you guys really help a lot. So ladies please keep it positive because people like me need it!
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9310828 tn?1403011088
Exactly me point ladies!
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I kind of disagree. I'm all about being supportive and empowering to other women but if someone asks my opinion on something I'm going to give it wheather its what they want to here it not. It shouldn't come off as "judgemental" or "negative Nancy" there's a fine line between opinionated and just cruel or mean. I think if someone is going to take what a complete stranger on an app says about therir situation thst much into consideration then that's their own problem. Seeking advise and opinions is different then basing a situation on what a stranger thinks or says. Like I said, empowing and supporting is great, but as women we need to have more confidence in ourselves and in this case our abilities to be great mothers, regardless of what someone else says. I feel comfortable writing this because I have been on both sides here - had people make me feel bad, or second guess myself about a decision that was right FOR ME, and also I've caught a lot of sh it and even been called "judgemental" on here because I voiced my opinion about a certain situation, not judging at all. We just need to be comfortable in our own skin and do what is the best decision for ourselfs and our families, and remind ourselves to keep an open mind when seeking advise. You might not get what you were hoping for.........
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It seems like some women just wanna scare u and point out the negatives. Really annoys me :'( I try and point things out without giving mummies worries and to ease their minds xxx
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Lol... Exactly... Judgemental women... This is why most of my friends are men.... The funniest thing is half these women are FIRST TIME MOMS acting like they know everything.... But I just say what I have to say and go on my way.... My pastors wife once told me never listen to a woman with less kids then you.... I hate know it all's and Google isn't reliable.... Yes it does have slit of info.... Like I was told since my first child 13 years ago 36 weeks is full term.... But because Google says no that's the answer.... These woman seem to forget that ultrasound isn't exact either..... Our babies can he older or younger then the tech says.... It's irritating... Don't tell me what to do with my body or my child.... I knows what's best and I know what MY body can handle.... Thank you for posting this comment!!!
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You are so right I see so many people giving the wrong information with so much confidence its just sad. If someone has a concern they should call their physician. Smh
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9658230 tn?1406070138
Some women are pregnant with their first child so sometimes it's comforting to know you are not alone, Or get an idea of what to expect or evening hear someone's story for knowledge purposes
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7845638 tn?1395841467
There are a lot of negative nancy type on here and I notice a lot of textbook opinions when we live in a world where nothing ever truly goes textbook it's almost annoying coming on here because support from other women is rare don't get me wrong there are a few who always respond from their personal knowledge and a good place but then there are a bigger group who question why we're even asking the questions we ask
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7818018 tn?1406154441
Amen!!
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9310828 tn?1403011088
*There
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