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Sleeping in my car...

My christmas was not what i hoped for... i got into a real bad argument w my bf and im sleeping im my car :"( im 35 weeks today and cant sleep :(
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Am I safe to assume this is your 1st? My boyfriend and I had plenty of fights when I was pregnant.  We were both so excited to be parents but clearly my parenting responsibility had to kick in as I was carrying the baby. This caused several of our fights.  Often he was up late with his friends or want to go drink with his buddies. Well I couldn't so it was a difficult transition until baby came.  Then we both had to be parents.  I wish you the best!  My boyfriend and I got married and are now expecting baby 4! Much less fighting now that everyone is in the same boat.
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Be careful don't do that again  . Stay at some of your friends house or hotel .instead of the car . Be smart love your baby.  
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Thank you ladies !! I didnt come back home i slept in my car.
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Sorry,it posted halfway through my comment. Anyways I really try to make an effort to stay when there is an argument to make the point that no matter how mad I am that I still wanna be there is that relationship etc. I hope you are able to resolve things and that it wasn't anything too serious
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Last week  the same thing happened to me, I went out driving around after argument. I was so mad and came home late and my husband was fast asleep, I was fuming lol. Even in healthy relationships arguments happen. I try not to leave
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I know how u feel having to leave like that.  I understand u may have a lot of pride and not want to return, but sleeping in the car is probably not the safest most comfortable option right now being that ur so far along.  At least try to cool off and return home or if u absolutely don't want to call a friend whose house u can go to or get a room for the night.  I was just there not too long ago with my husband and wanted to sleep in my car as well, but I just couldn't.  Try and swallow ur pride at the very least for the sake of ur safety and go home.  Ur bf must be going crazy trying to get in touch with u.  Idk, if he's at least trying to contact u, I'd probably ignore the call and just return home and go to sleep.  I hope u guys work things out soon.  Goodluck!!
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Go back home what are you doing out ? Be careful be safe think about your baby and you. So many crazy people out there you never know.  God bless you.  Go back home please . You will be ok with your man . Trust me.  Merry Christmas and happy new year.  Go home mami
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I hope he doesn't allow you to sleep in the car...merry Christmas be safe!
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