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Stressed!!

Since concieving I really dislike my hubby. Every thing he does irritates me. We aren't even passionate about intercourse at all. I just feel like the spark is gone. Has anyone else exsperienced this before??
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I had that too in the first trimester. He didn't even have to do or say anything....couldn't evenlok at him. But it all got better after few weeks as long as he understand that hormones make you crazy ..
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I think we all go through this at one point our another...just remember it is most likely your hormones and try not to act too irrationally or yell at him for stuff that you will realize later is stupid (but feel free to vent here!) or he'll be too scarred to let you have a second pregnancy!  Lol

I yelled at my hubby because he left the cap off of the toothpaste one morning (but he woke up an hour early to make me breakfast and pack me a big lunch so I would have healthy food for the baby)....oops!
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Its important to keep the intimacy its not just about sex, its about the little things cuddling on the couch, hold hands whenever possible, sneaking a touch here and there.  My husband and I have not had sex since we conceived seeing as I am on bed rest.  And trust me he annoys the hell out of me.  But we went through intimacy loss with our first that we are very adamant on maintaining that connection but u have to work on it and remember its just ur hormones.
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Yes it's just hormones. Maybe take a night and go have dinner and spend some alone time. It should pass Hun.
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