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Having trouble dealing with the father of my baby because he hasn't got a job yet and is making no effort. I'm working 5 days a week as a cna and its starting to get harder and harder. Needing advice. Don't want to nag him but I feel like he's not stepping up.
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6791550 tn?1392365553
I know LOVE is powerful...but I couldn't let a grown *** man lay around while i get up & go work everyday especially being prego...that would drive me crazy...His *** needs 2 get out & get a job so he can help u...i just don't c how u putting up with it...I'd talk 2 him but obviously that's doing no good...He'd b gone out the door...u can do bad by yourself hunny
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7602406 tn?1402367748
That's unfair that he isn't helping you but you really have to let him know you're tired of having to do everything.  I hope things get better for you.
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but you didnt create the baby alone. You dont need to nagg him but talk to him let him know wussup. Wether you guys are together or not he needs to step up. Srry i didnt finish writing and i accidently posted. Good luck with everything!!
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GIRL you shouldnt have to nag him but you better. Who wants a significant other that sits on there butt all day & do nothing. Yes your working all power to you
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7536253 tn?1395094863
I'm sorry you're in that situation. You shouldn't have to nag him or ask him to step up. A man would do it without hesitation. Is he your boyfriend? You just said the father of your baby so not sure if you're together or what. Either way, he knows what he needs to do and is just clearly being immature and irresponsible.
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