I do not use Dreft at all, but I do know that Dreft makes dryer sheets. Or you can look for anything hypoallergenic or demetologist approved as well.
I stopped using Dreft after a few weeks with my first and didn't use it at all with my second and everything was fine. It was just getting expensive and seemed unnecessary. Just my opinion, a lot of mom's use it, nothing wrong with it just was an unnecessary expense for my family
I didn't even change my soap the second time and my baby was fine.
No softener and no dryer sheets. I didn't use the expensive baby stuff I just use All free and Clear. I use it for me already so I just used it for my son too. I figured if I was holding him against my clothes it would be the same as him wearing it