Welcome home party for newborn

[3rdtime_mum]

My mother-in-law wants to throw a small gathering after baby arrives. I really don't think that's going to happen. First I don't want a lot of people around my newborn (germs and etc). Second, I want to heal quietly at home for a couple weeks. Third, I just don't want people around my newborn lol. Would any of you be willing to have this party? Every time I give her a reason I don't want this party she just ignore. How should I tell her its not going to happen?

[strengthbeyond_measure3]

Absolutely NOT! I wouldn't do it. That is not a good idea the baby doesn't need all of those people around that soon. She's a mom and should understand that. Besides you need time to heal and rest. I hope you are able to get out of it.  

[3rdtime_mum]

Trust me ladies I call myself trying to be nice, but I don't think I will keep repeating myself to her. She's one those snobby women that wants all to go her way, but I will be letting her know sooner then later

[shysmom87]

Girl flat out tell her look ive tried telling you i dont want the party and you wont listen so if you do have it, it will not take place at my house and if you have it somewhere else i will not be there or the baby. I need time to heal and bond with my child ALONE!

[MrsAmos]

Just don't show up.... I guess I'm the evil woman I DONT HAVE FAMILY AT THE HOSPITAL AND I DONT HAVE COMPANY AT MY HOUSE!!! She shouldn't be that bold anyways!!! But I was thinking about a arrival party myself but I remember I don't like my in laws and I never talk to them so naw why be nice now?!? Lol

[3rdtime_mum]

Lol @ ross yessssss plzzzzz lol. Yes I told my hubby I will go crazy and his whole family will hate me if this party is thrown without my permission. He keeps saying h he'll handle it. Okay!!!

[ross1112]

Hahahahahaha omg u want me to go there and kick her ***? Or tell her in my way that u don't want that party? She's inconsiderate