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Maybe to much TMI

ok this maybe to much TMI but I was just wondering if this is normal. I'm 30 weeks pregnant and often have a really hard time getting into sex or getting wet enough to have sex with my husband. Is this normal or is something wrong with me????? Also when we do have sex sometimes I'll bleed a little after. Is that normal? Sometimes I think it's just because it's not wet enough down there and it gets irritated. Sorry so much detail but I gotta know if it's normal.
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I'm 28 weeks and my libido dropped like crazy the last two weeks. I'm having a problem with dryness even when I am turned on. Just make sure to use lube in case it is causing the bleeding. Good luck!
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I had a problem with a little dryness too. Your hormones are fluctuating and u may not be making enough vaginal fluids, but don't worry, that may change in a few weeks. I had increased vaginal fluids maybe around 32 weeks & sex became much more comfortable & pleasureable after that. The bleeding u r having could be from the friction since ur not as moist. If u r having a lot of bleeding, speak to ur doc. If it's just a little, I'm sure it's nothing to worry about. Hang in there & good luck!
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The bleeding could be from cervical thinning. It's totally normal during pregnancy. All it means is the blood vessels lining the sides of your vagina are extra sensitive and thin, and thus can burst during sex. If it's just a little when you wipe, I would say don't worry about it. But if it's dark or requires several wipes to remove, contact your doctor just to be sure everything is okay.
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I have a problem being a little more on the dry side too. It's not abnormal during this time in your pregnancy. Hormone levels are different n that's what changes things down there. My advice, if u feel dry, u need to tell him to stop n use a natural lube or ask your OB what they recommend. Don't let your husband keep going to the point where u bleed a little.
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