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not cut out for this

Does anyone else feel like they are not cut out for being pregnant? I think I hate almost every aspect of being pregnant. I'm cooking boy #2 amd I so badly wanted a girl but I don't think I can go through this again to try :'(
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Lol ya my husband thinks he is going to get me pregnant again right after this one is over. Made the comment about being super fertile at that time. I just laughed at him. No frikkin way!
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8526246 tn?1405601876
I some times feel the same . Im so over it! My bf wants to have a girl right after bc were having a boywith this prpregnancy but hell no! I refuse! Factory closed!!  This pregnancy has been hell to me and I haven't really got to enjoy any of it but the kicking my boy does. Good luck to you I hope the rest of your pregnancy gets better
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This is my third! Finally a girl. I just get so sick of waiting & I'm getting huge with her...I didnt get that big with my sons.
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7607165 tn?1395780125
Oh im so not about this pregnant life but very excited its my first daughter after 3boys but she is beating me bad!!!! Not easy at all I van only get a few good days and im 29 weeks August plzzz hurry but definitely greatfull to hv my blessing ♥gd luck ladies
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Oops....ment have another boy...
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Thanks ladies,  atleast I know I'm not alone.  I always say I love the end result... Just not the process. And Mckaylas we may do the same to get our girl, adopt. I don't think I could go through this whole process again and then more than likely (knowing my luck) have another girl. As of yest I'm 30weeks and just done with this!
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Ya I definitely feel the same way.. aside from feeling her move, I hate everything about being pregnant. It's so gross lol!  I have been sick pretty much the entire 23 weeks, which makes everything harder. I am excited to actually hold my baby girl but the process blows! I'm so glad I'm not the only one that feels this way..
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7879163 tn?1411591644
This my first baby I'm sixteen weeks and there is no way I'm having another kid I love the thought but the process is crap thank God for my blessing but I'm so done this will be my one and only
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7365709 tn?1395398972
Lol I feel you I'm on boy #2 and I wanted a girl but this process although a beautiful blessing is difficult and can take a toll on you ....I really do want a girl but I'm not sure if I can go through this again but who knows I said that after I had my first and now I'm here again Lol.....hang in there girl god wouldn't put you through anything u couldn't handle
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6918915 tn?1395932871
I am with you on this. I hate being pregnant. It's awful and I think it's honestly one of the worst times of my life. I don't say that to people but I do say I don't like it and I can't stand when people make you feel bad for saying that. It's the way I really feel! I'm not interested in being politically correct. Pregnancy *****!
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6674791 tn?1396215150
I know that I'm not. The only part of pregnancy I liked was feeling the movement but before it got painful and before I was too huge... other than that I hated it with both pregnancies... I was meant to be a mommy... but not pregnant... I just had my 2nd baby yesterday and thank god that I am done having kids... I have 2 girls... we may adopt a boy sometime in the future
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8919982 tn?1400717187
I feel u guus sometimes I wish it was my husband p.g then me lol....just because its not easy
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I absolutely love kids but hate being pregnant.  I have almost every bad symptom in book. Physically n emotionally overwhelmed. Cant wait for this baby to be born
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Sorry, typo on the last sentence of my previous comment.  What I meant was, "Hope you and I feel better soon". :)
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I get you.  I'm going on baby number 3. My first two are 13 and 10. It's been so long since I've had a baby in the house!  I planned to get pregnant but now that I am (8wks), I can't seem to be happy about the pregnancy.  I'm nauseous,  moody, and scared of having a 3rd cesearean section.  Maybe once I hear the heartbeat or know the sex of the baby,  I'll be excited.  Just not feeling it yet. No more babies for me after this one.  I hate to sound so negative but that's just how I'm feeling.  How you and I feel better soon.
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