1st trimester and frightened

[AJCE2603]

Hi ladies
Im 25 Ive just found out im 4 weeks and 3 days with my second, I had a miscarriage last year at early weeks im so frightened this will happen again is anyone else feeling like this ? Im over the moon but me and my partner are finding it hard to relax has anyone else experienced this feeling recently?  

[theawesomejuju]

I had an ectopic pregnancy back in 2011 tried and tried and didn't get preg again until jan this year. .. I'm now 33 weeks at 5 weeks I had bad cramping and freaked out about everything... I just relaxed and let God handle this and Herr I am almost 34 weeks with a healthy baby girl

[AJCE2603]

Yeah its hard I have a four year old aswell so relaxing isnt so easy :) be glad when I can hear my baby I guess that takes some strain off :)

[MsBlairMonet]

Congratulations! I went through the same thing in January with twins. When we found out I was pregnant again in March I was so sacred. I went to the doctor for everything and even bought a Doppler just to listen to the heartbeat everyday. As time goes on and your pregnancy continues you will continue to relax. I am now 26 weeks and just have the regular pregnancy concerns. Relaxing was the best thing I could do even thought that was so much easier said then done! Good Luck!

[mumoftwosarah]

I am 7 weeks and 1 day pregnant and worry so much as I have light period pain for 10 minutes every day not sure what to think this is my 5th pregnancy but 3rd baby :-( I also say sorry for your lost wish you the very best hope every thing works out for you good luck.

[AJCE2603]

Thank you congratulations to you aswell :)

[BritNyabuto]

My husband and I were both scared about losing this one, we had some early complications but we are now finished with the first trimester and we have been able to start enjoying the fact the baby really is coming.
Sorry for you resent loss, try and relax and don't stress.
Congratulations on your pregnancy :-)

[AJCE2603]

You must be due around same time as me then .... I wish you luck with your pregnancy thanks for commenting I feel a little less stressed now cheers ladies :)

[sweetish]

That is helpful thank you both for posting. I am 4 weeks pregnant and had a miscarriage in April I've been worried too. But another thing that I saw is only 3-5% of woman experience two consecutive miscarriages. This is my 4th pregnancy n hopefully 3rd baby. Good luck to both of you!

[AJCE2603]

Thank you congratulation 2 you 2 and im also sorry to hear about your loss to its a really hard time me and partner finding it hard to talk about my pregnacy as we dont wanna get excited about it and it goes wrong but I guess I will try and relax and take it easy thanks for commenting easier when someone else knows how your feeling

[cnmartin1425]

I went through the same thing recently. I'm 26 and I had a miscarriage in June at 7 weeks, and am 6 weeks pregnant now after trying again. It's an emotional time, because you want to be excited for the pregnancy, but at the same time you're scared to have another miscarriage again! The best advice I received from family and friends is to just relax and let things happen. Stressing out and worrying is not good for you or the baby. It's hard but try to relax, things will work out! I'm so sorry for your loss, but congrats on your new pregnancy! Best of luck to you :)