not pregnancy question

[LexyB05112013]

I'm pregnant with my first child with my husband. He has a 14 yrs old child from a previous marriage. Ever since we have found out we are having a baby his ex wife wants to pop up out of the blue with my step son and then drop him off then we have to cancel all plans. He has asked her to give us a notice when he is coming over but she won't. Now its starting to cause problems with us and its worrying me specially because I don't want to end up being a single parent. Any advice would help

[LexyB05112013]

We was going to do that but because we live in separate states they won't do it since we are so far away. That's why I don't understand her its not like she is driving 2 mins down the rd so u know when u r planning a trip just let us kbow .

[LexyB05112013]

Don't get me wrong I luv my step son and don't mind he come over I just want a notice so we don't make plans.

[LexyB05112013]

I don't get why some people just want to just do things they know will cause problems. I'm so frustrated because before this everything was great with me and my hubby and of course he don't want my step son to feel like he don't matter. I had planned a surprise trip to the beach for my hubby since he works so hard and had to cancel it because she popped up.its starting to get crazy now

[mommy2ndtime]

In the same boat. Hubby goes 6 months without getting to see his daughter (13 next month) and now her mom wants us to pick her up, drop her off, take her to school, bring her here, take her there, and not to mention she spends the night alot. As soon as we say we are pregnant. She had a baby back at Easter and she didnt dump her on us back then. I dont get it. She refuses to follow court order but has no problem using us.