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communication with partner

Is any one finding it hard to communicate with your partner about your pregnancy.  My partner says he happy but his actions are confusing this is his first child so I know he may be scared but he won't open up.
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I swear my boyfriend is so confusing I don't know how to handle the situation with him so I just don't talk to him about it then when I don't say things he gets mad so yeah....... Communication ***** and I wish it didn't mainly because we've been together for 7 1/2 years 2 miscarries An now I'm due with our first baby in feb
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Yea I'm just so confused cause he really wanted to have a baby but now that it happened he  acting up. Maybe your boyfriend is just afraid due to the previous miscarries. Hope this turn around for you.
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Thanks and same for you .......they need to man up or move on we already going through alot
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With my first, he got like that near the end of the pregnancy. I had to pry it out of him, but he finally admitted he was scared of becoming a dad. This time (I'm just 9 weeks) I've been really sick to my stomach and tired. I feel like he doesn't understand because the last time I only threw up 3 times total & worked until I was 39.5 weeks! We were both so spoiled by an amazingly easy pregnancy!
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I thought my boyfriend was the only one and it hurts sometime I think he don't  care about the baby ..... but I don't knw why he akting like this is weiierd well his the one who wanted to have a baby realy bad he evan through aways my pill when I was taking care of my self to not get pregnat ....he use to tell me that he wanted a baby and stuff and kw that's it hapinig e don't even called me o even text me an before he use to call me like almost al day an got mad when I dint answer its really cumfusing some times I think maby he doesn't want the baby or maby nothig to do with me I talke to him sn I dold him u knw what if you dnt want to be part of my baby will just leave I don't need you just talk with the truth u knw I ant gana beag you to be with me if u don't want its fine just tell me what's wrong....yes sometimes I do think his cheating on me cuz his akting this way but I acully dnt knw and its strees full I prefered to knw the truth than not knwing the truth but obously he won't tell me..... but then I leave with my sister and he told me he wants me to move with him and so I don't knw what to think its it me or its what I'm thinking I just don't knw ......... any experince
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