My 9 yr old tween smdh

[keaij]

My 9 yr old lives woth my mom part time because my mom helps watch her during the week and she lives in a very nice area with great schools. Anyway Im expecting and my daughter only knows, I told her I want her hpme full time because my mom is moving to a smaller place.

My daughter grabbed she stuff told her grandma lets go and let here of coruse giving me a kiss on the cheek than told me she is not leaving her grandmas she was outside and I wasnt going to spank her because I dont wanna be in jail pregnant.

The other day we are holding hands going to a play she sees her friends and snatches her hand after from mine and says mine my friends are here. I grew up a loner and didnt have alot of friends my daughter is a social butterfly I hate people lol so I dont get her at all and she tells me. She is excited for this baby but Im scared Im losing my baby to the tween world her friends and grandma. My friends said I need to get over the fact she is growing up but I wish she was still 2 :-(

Should I just relax, my mom is single and retired so she loves having my daughter

[keaij]

Lol yea she is more social than I ever was I think Im still adjusting lol

[Treksy]

Yeah but your job is prepare her for adulthood and she sounds like shes well adjusted haha

[keaij]

Very tru but this is happening way too fast :-(

[Treksy]

My 8 yr old is in a training bra....and she definitly needed it! She was poking through her shirts lol
So when did she go from my little ponies to bras? Lol its tough! She was telling me about a school dance and her friends were talking about which boys they were gonna dance with! I was like whaaaat? Thankfully she had no interest lol

Its tough to accept but just think about when you were a kid ...you wanted space too lol
I keep telling myself that I look forward to our relationship changing and evolving like my own with my mother has!