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feel so alone

Dont no where else to go right now my mum's at work and keep pestering my friend with my problems. My bf was staying with me until his place was sorted and now that it is I dont get to see him much so when I said I could get a lift to see him he was like yea but then when I said I had to bring my son with me he made up a crap excuse :( I feel like he waswwith me coz he needed me but now he doesn't he's drifting away from me I don't no what to do it hurts so much I sent him a message saying for him to get in touch when he wants to see as im fed up with chasing him and told him how I felt about the wanting me when he needs me too I've had enough I no I can bring this baby up on my own aswell but I want him too I just feel so down and lonely :(
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Aww thanks guys I've told him how I feel but with no reply hopefully he replies tomorrow my son is  and im 15 weeks with his baby I've known him years and my son already knows him well if he walks then I no I was just being used but hopefully he stays im going to give him space and tbh I no I can do this myself so im all good if he goes
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Is this his baby and hoe old is the baby and you guys? Just sound like young love and he don't know what he wants. I'm sure 90% of women have been through this. I didn't go through it with my daughters father but with other men that I dated. I didn't and wouldn't take my kids around other men anyways but their dad. They didn't met my boyfriend until we dated for a year and you should do the same. If he don't want to be bothered just move on. It's plenty of people out here who will love you and your son. My friend baby dad started acting up and they broke up during her 6th month of pregnancy and she started dating someone else b4 the baby was born and he love her baby
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I live with my bf and feel lonely at times. You have to sit down and have a real conversation yell if you have to but constantly trying to figure out what he is thinking or what is going on is to much on your heart right now. Just put it all out there and have him do the same. My bf is not a communicator so it is very frustrating but he will communicate when he knows I'm loosing my mind ;)
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