I was 175 5'8" when I got preggo with my 1st son gained over 50lbs and doc was never concerned about it but I always had normal bp and no gestational diabetes if uve had any issues then I can understand ur docs concern otherwise don't stress it won't do u or baby any good
I've gained 20 and am at 30wks tomorrow. .. I'm way shorter than you and got pregnant around 160.. I'm really worried because I failed my glucose test(not by much) and found out I'm anemic....I'm more depressed about the diet change than anything. ..you'll b fine, just try to eat as healthy as you can and exercise:)
Don't feel bad... With my first daughter I gained 60lbs and was more active then before my pregnancy and lost 25lbs with my second daughter.... I'm sure you look amazing... !!!