feeling unwanted

[n1c0lle52415]

So I'm 25weeks today and I got into a huge fight with my babies father. He has been spending a lot of his days off fishing and hanging out with his friends. I know he works a lot to provide for our family but I wish that he wanted to spend more time with me before our daughter comes. I get that he wants to do fun things with his buddies but it's been quite frequent and seems to be his top priority on his days off. I just want to spend time with him before we become parents because we won't have the freedom to do stuff alone as a couple as often. I know that some of these feelings have to do the fact that I don't really leave the house much and he's kind of my only friend right now but I also feel like he is so burdened by being home at times. He has been so obsessed with planning a weekend fishing trip with his friends that he has pushed aside our plans to go on a weekend getaway together. What should I do?

[tiff8906]

When u have the baby and fit back into those jeans he like, then he's gonna be fishing for you. Wondering where u and that baby have been.  

[tiff8906]

I'm so sorry. I used to be in the same situation with mine. We are 20 urs apart. All he cared about was fishing and drinking.  But the fighting and stress caused me to have a stillborn. So when I got pregnant again, I told myself that I was the only one for me. Everyday I looked forward to meeting my baby so I could know the feeling of unconditional love. That's what keep me going.