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I was just curious about how love making was after having a baby for us woman? I mean  our breasts are sore and engorged with milk and the vjay jay is a lil on the out of order side. Not to mention how much our bodies change. How was sex for everyone baby?
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My all to open and blunt father assured my hubby that everything gets tighter down there so it is especially nice! His words not mine... I ended up having a section so we were back at it a week later :-)
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With my first I got stiches and it was not the same for me totally different not in a good way . Had a difficult time first couple of months.
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Just remember kegals are your best friend even while ur prego u should be doing them keeps ur pelvic floor muscles strong
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I got cut with my baby so had to get stitches but after the 6 weeks I was good to have sex still randomly sore but felt normal
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okay thank you :-)
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Yes it does.

It takes time but it all goes back to the way it was. I tore and had a lot of stitches and sometimes it aches but other than that everything works lol
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what about the vjay jay? does it go.back to normal?
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My nipples were more sensitive after my son was born and they've stayed sensitive which made nipple play hotter than ever.
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lol thanks.for the feed back im just worried because the body goes through a lot of wear and tear so was just curious
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lol thanks.for the feed back im just worried because the body goes through a lot of wear and tear
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I bf and had alot of soreness but once I got over it seriously love having my boobs played with more than ever before and my hubs likes the leaking says the more I leak the hotter it is. I had a 1st degree tear and waited about 2weeks wish I had waited longer cuz I got scared I maybe gave myself an infection but it was very tender so we went veeerrrry slow and it seemed like I had to relearn what felt good where like I got rearranged down there hubs says it felt a lil different but just as good if not better but I still worry maybe hes just saying that cuz divorce is expensive lol
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I had sex 8 weeks afterwards and I was in so much pain. Felt like a bunch of scalpels cutting me. So way! I'm so scared as to when the time comes this time around
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I had sex 2 weekd after it was fantastic I missed him so much we could wait
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It is better than before I had it 8 days after giving birth and it felt great I didn't need stitches though
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Yikes, with my first I was cut so it was honestly pretty painful for myself when we started up again. :) was exciting, but painful. Everyone is different though. Good luck!
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To me it was great. I definitely waited the while 6 weeks tho before we tried anything. But I thought it felt the same as before and even a little more exciting lol after having a baby then having sex it feels like the first time
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