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Hubby decided new to have any kind of sex during entire pregnancy.  Im 35 weeks now. Some times I needed it so bad, but he thought it will effect our baby. This is our first baby.  Am I the only one...
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@Batmama I'm so glad you said that cause that is my suggestion... Not saying that rape is a good thing but it's what's needed... He maybe uncomfortable at first but he'll get used to it, lol... I can't say my bf is the same way but he just likes to be the victim anyways... That's actually how this baby came along:)
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6822962 tn?1396329659
I wish my husband would say that. He is always bugging me for sex several times a day. Since being pregnant i have no desire for sex. I do it but it is like doing a chore. I rather do the dishes. My hormones are going in the opposite direction with this pregnancy.
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Mine said he didn't want to so i just raped him alot lol then i had the doctor tell him it was good, now at 37 weeks we don't have any problems, if we can get it in our day we can do it three times... Oh i will miss it when the baby comes and so does the blood!!
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7058746 tn?1393435420
I was 5 weeks and it hurt something awful! So we waited till I was 8 weeks but he freaked out cuz my stomach was bigger. But now I'm 12 weeks an he seems ok now. We will see. He says it's much tighter. ;)
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My husband has banned me from sex too.. first I was pissed then the last time we had it..in the middle of it, the baby began to kick a lot and we both got so turned off of it that neither of us approached the topic again lol... so I am waiting till the baby is out and sleeping in his crib, awaaaaay from my belly so I can resume play time with hubs.. lol
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Mine refuses. I swear I am going to go crazy. When I asked him why he said he didn't know and the drive was just gone. It breaks my heart bc it makes me feel unwanted and not attractive enough for him
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5770257 tn?1374371422
Me and my fiancee still have sex at least once a week, Im 34wks preg...although sometimes I dont feel up to it and skip a week but make up for it with an extra 'early night' starting to get awkward now my belly is getting big so we have to experiment with new positions which can be really funny! We end up in tears of laughter but enjoy it coz we know once our son arrives its gonna get harder to have us time and those special moments alone. Make the most of it!! We turn massage into sexy time too, dim the lights and he rubs oil into my belly and give me back rubs and we enjoy the time together, doesnt always have to be sex!!
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7140159 tn?1396530233
My husband loves having sex when im pregnant bc he says it feels different (better bc its warmer and snugger) according to him pregnant vagina is gooood vagina haha. Theres nothing that can affect the baby, but a lot of first time dads get freaked out just take him to your next ob appointment and have your doctor reassure him that the babys fine and its perfectly fine to have sex
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I meant - penis and bunny, not bunny :-)
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If he thinks his penos is that big to effect the baby, bunny he's a keeper ;-) but all joking aside, it won't affect the baby at all !!! At this stage, it may induce labor and give you satisfaction ...... I'm having baby in 3 weeks and My husband and I still have sex, but we're just cautious because one of the last times I got some pretty interesting contractions :-)
Good luck hun !!
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My husbands like that. Im 38 weeks and wr havent since october. But I think his main thing is ive had a sist roupt during. It wont hurt baby, but sex can b uncomfortable for mammas
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It will not affect your baby. And yes, my husband was like that too.
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It will not effect your baby. And yes, my husband was like that too.
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I'm 20wks, my bf and I have had sex maybe 3 times because he's freaked out. He told me after the last time that that's it until after the baby comes...this is going to feel like forever! I know your frustration, this is our first baby also
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