Ugh it's the same even when he's awake! It's like just because he works means I do everything else. Well that's not the case around here. For 1 you just went back to a job work 5 days ago for being off almost all winter from his regular seasonal job. I'm the one that pays the bills and he spends his money on pot and smokes. I pay insurance on the vehicles and put gas in them daily. I've been with him for way too long to think he's going to change :(
Having this talk when he is not sleeping and cranky may help. See where his head is at.
Awe. So sorry to hear that. I hope your babu gets better