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sorry ladies

Just letting it out , I finally ended my relationship my partner was putting his weed addiction b4 me n everything else  getting into ridiculous debt knowing our baby girl is due jan I cant take it any more but now comes the hard part staying strong n not being soft n taking him back .... ahh
Feeling  overwhelmed
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I was in the same situation 2 years ago now, best thing I ever did was leave. Good on you for not being taken for granted. Stay strong it gets better and baby will keep you motivated once they arrive. Don't get me wrong it hasn't been easy organising contact over the past few years but he has her 2 nights a week at his mums house. It's important baby knows there daddy even if he's been a looser bf, he might be a really good dad.
I am now due my second child with a very decent loving man, never feel as though you have to stick around because you share a child. They will be happy as long as you love and care for them.
Good luck with everything :)
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You go girl. There's a reason why women have children and men don't. We are the stronger ones built to handle it. Keep that in mind. You got this!
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Ive been soft for way too long now tday  he pushed me to my limit n I finally snapped  n realised I dnt need him just because were having a bby together . Thanks guys x
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You got this! Just don't be gullible when he talks to you trying to get you back. Stay strong for you and your baby ♡
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Meant yes
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Right choice. N yrs the hard part staying strong but you can do it
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