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it just started happening.

When I am with my husband in bed and we are at it I don't get as wwet any more. Is it because I am not in the mood or is it because of the pregnancy?  I feel bad for my husband because I end it fast. It just Annoying so Ill just say I have to go now. I an 22 and so is he I am on my 28 weeks like in few hrs.
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Yup. All day long its like gross and constantly slimy feeling. Start sexy time and BAM instant desert. Hate it. Ive turned into a whiner. Oo stop its too dry...ouch it hurts. .. ugh its soo unenjoyable.. lol
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That happens to me at times too. I'll be in the mood but when we go at it, I feel dry and it kind of hurts which is a turn off :( definitely has to be from pregnancy hormones
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Thank you lady's. I am so glad there people in here that can help me with my questions. This was something that I can't ask my mom or mother in law.
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Ugh that happened to me the other night...it was weird cuz it has NEVER happened b4 ...it has to be from the pregnancy
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It could just be pregnancy related. Although we typically have an increase in discharge while we are pregnant, sometimes it's not enough to keep us from getting dry. Which is understandable. You can always try to get some lubricant to help things along. My husband and I have to use it just about every other time we do have sex. Sometimes, it could be the position you're in and it's not really that comfortable. We found that being on my side with him behind me has helped a lot... The more comfortable you are while being intimate, the better it will be. I would sometime dread having him asking for sex because I know the positions we were using weren't very pregnancy friendly feeling to me. But once we figured out what helped us both out, we are much more comfortable and happy.

Now, if you feel it's because you're not in the mood, maybe try some things before hand to try to spice it up a little before you do the deed. Sometimes all it takes is a little patience. It's hard to be intimate when you're pregnant at times. I'm not able to get in the mood much with two kids already running around and 8 months pregnant. My husband works crazy hours so when I am in the mood he isn't home so it's wasted. But, somehow we have to find time to just be husband and wife... :]
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