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7557112 tn?1399509472

nesting?

So every time I see mess I just can't help but FREAK OUT!!! I clean & clean I just can't stand a messy place!! ! My husband is no help! Omg! I HATE when my restroom is dirty! It just makes me cringe just looking at it if I see toothpaste on the sink or dried shampoo on the tube I just HAVE to clean it up! My husband always telling me that I do too much that I need to chill ! But if I don't do it who will?!?!? Ugh lol
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7557112 tn?1399509472
It just one of those things we can't control lol but at least it's a good thing! I just wish I didn't get so frustrated & mad if I see something dirty ! I go off every time lol
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7543158 tn?1391978069
My hubby tries to help but usually just ends up getting in the way if he gets worried about me so I make a compromises with him. I tell him if he does a few things for me (right now bc if I let him wait it won't get done lol) then as soon as I'm done with the room I'm cleaning I will sit down and take a break for an hour. I pinned up a board and wrote down which rooms I'll clean for the day and what exactly I've done to them for hubby to look at when he gets home. He asked me to at least do that so that when he gets home from work he can look and see how much I've done and suggest more break times if he thinks I didn't get enough. I've basically ended up taking a 10 minute break after each little thing I do but it makes him happy and keeps him off my back about "taking it easy."
Maybe you ladies could try something like that? It's annoying as hell but if we placate our men and show them that we're trying to  work with them instead of being stubborn they'll more likely leave us alone to do whatever. :P
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Lol, im the same, i get my hoover out at least twice times aday. Its driving me crazy but loving how clean and tidy every where is.
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I can't wait to get that nesting bug. I hope I get it. I get little spurts here and there but not enough to keep me cleaning. I'm ready!! Lol
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Omg.. im the same.. i hate dirty stuffy places.. even im obsessed with my restroom. I have guests over currently and the minute sumone makes a visit to the restroom im all charged up to go next and tidy it.. ahh!! I hate ppl who are messy. My husband does clean but not like i want..almost 80% of our arguments take place bcos he says i need to chill and that im a cleaniness maniac. Lol! I guess i shud take it slow atleast now.. but i cant help it
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