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I was spotting at 6 weeks and now I am 10 weeks and i haven't had any sex in over a month because my I am scared that I will start spotting. But then I am worried about my husband because he hasn't ask for no sex so I am like what the f*** why isn't he trying to touch me!! At this point I am thinking about the worse!! Just had to let it out..
Yeah doc should be able to give u a straight answer if theres questions about safety of baby. But if u do get the all clear ull probly have to have a flat out convo with ur hubs saying it's safe and I want it. Guys are really kinda dumb unless u give it to em in black n white my husband quit trying to have sex with me when I am having alot of sickness and pain and I told him I want him to try when he wants it cuz Ill tell him if I really dont want to and thats very few n far between n it wont hurt his feelings but it hurts my feelings when it seems like he doesnt want me and he said "ok I just dont know when ur feeling up for it so I dont try"
He might just be feeling for you. Sympathy. You are not wanting to have sex for fear of spotting, he might feel similar. He could just be holding how you feel above trying to get his rocks off. My husband knows how I'm feeling at all times, even when he is over 400 miles away at work. Symphony pains. Don't close off communication. It's very important. If you said you didn't want to have sex (oral too) then he could just be trying to respect that and not try to touch you sexual because it makes you uncomfortable. If you want it tell him. Communication is important for couples while pregnant. He can't know unless you tell him.
Maybe he's scared to hurt you I was spotting at 5weeks and we've had a prior miscarriage so hes so scared to touch me hes afraid itll happen again
So my doctor didn't really give me a straight answer she said it was up to me. But all other doctors previous to het told me not to gave sex and to wait for what my doctor opinion. So I actually just changed my dr to a new one I will see her tomorrow and ask for her advice. The last doctor I had was super nice but she was retiring so I had to switch to a new one. And well my new dr. Told me i couldn't gain more then 11 pounds cut the carbs and it was up to me to have sex? So I changed her. But I am crossing my fingers for this new doctor hopefully she gives me good advice
Has doc said ur ok?
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