just want to talk

[angel669]

Idk I feel lonely and feel like I have no one to talk to. All of my "friends" never even talk to me anymore. My boy and I never really have time to talk or anything, he works so much.: /

[genamarie]

I know how you feel hun. I was afraid to tell all my friends I was pregnant, because I knew how they'd react, and they weren't the greatest of friends, so it wasn't such a loss by not speaking to them anymore. But the friends I thought were good friends haven't really spoken to me since telling them I'm pregnant. The only people in my life I've had for support or to just talk to when I needed someone was my parents (who want to argue and yell at me more than actually be there for me), my boyfriend (who after being there this entire time, we broke up last night just a day over 32 weeks, and he hasn't spoken to me since), and some of the very nice and caring ladies I've met here on this forum ever since I joined once I was put on strict bedrest. The only thing I really have now that he's gone is this forum board. If you ever want someone to talk to, I'm always here. Feel free to message me. I'm always in need of someone to talk to also, no matter what it's about. Don't feel down, you've got people here who are more than willing to give you the advice and support you need.

[mrselmore1206]

I so feel u here. My bff is in California and I'm in Louisiana so I'm lonely. Have my hubby but miss the female friendship

[angel669]

Oh I bet that was hard! I don't think I could do that. I feel like I'm ready for the baby now. I love him so much already. Family is being very supportive. I plan on finishing high school online.

[neebs26]

Get your GED u can go to college when.he gets a little older and if u were smart enought for a scholarship u can get another one. When the baby gets a little older u can finish school and get a decent job and not worry about anyone or their comments

[sb5801]

Sixteen is young and I know its going to be tough so I can sympathize with you. I was 14 when i got pregnant with my oldest son. (Not planned at all) He is 12 years old now. I graduated from my high school, never dropped out but had a wonderful father who helped me w my son. Then i went to a two year program and got my LPN licensure. There is a plan for everyone :-) Congrats and good luck with your new addition and dont let anyone put you down.

[angel669]

Oh goodness. I didn't think anyone would comment:) lol I'm 26weeks, neebs26. Lol yano, everyone in my family said I'd be pregnant by 16 and take the wrong rout and I always said they were crazy that I wasn't stupid. Well the day after I turn 16 Ifind out im 3weeks. It was heart breaking. I'm so happy I had my boyfriend being supportive and loving. I quit school and lost a scholarship because of people and their rude comments about me everyday. My life has changed so much! :(

[sb5801]

I know the feelings exactly. I talk to my two parakeets while my husband is off working. Very exciting....

[Flickan]

Not alone...my bf was the only friend I had left, and she just flipped out on me via email last week telling me how selfish and rude I was (ty hormones). And as much as I love hubby.....he's not the same as talking to one of the girls sometimes. I have 4 SIL in town, and 2 of them have kids..but all 4 are judgemental so I choose to stay away as much as possible.

[hutch2996]

Same here. Hubs works afternoons so we maybe get a total of 2 hours a day together. I am a stay at home mom and even with the kids here it gets lonely.

[Christmas_baby]

Preaching to the choir... my hubbybis amazing but works 12-16 hr days 5x a week! So when he is home i let him rest and sleep. My sisters have their own kids/lives and i havent talked to anynof my friends in forever because we've kind of went our seperate ways. Im getting to the point of having convos with my dogs lol.

[Christmas_baby]

Preachung to the choir... my hubbybis amazing but works 12-16 hr days 5x a week! So when he is home i let him rest and sleep. My sisters have their own kids/lives and i havent talked to anynof my friends in forever because we've kind of went our seperate ways. Im getting to the point of having convos with my dogs lol.

[neebs26]

Hi! Im lonely too. All my friends moved to a different state and no one i know has kids so we never hang out anymore. How far along are you?

[sdraper1]

I completely understand the feeling.
My husband is always working, then sleeping.
My friends are not the best, it's crappy.