Ugh, I feel for ya. I had horrible roids. I mean, golf ball size, scary ones. What they told me to do at the hospital was to alternate---- prep H after going to the bathroom, then next time putting a tucks wipe in my underpants and leaving it there and back and forth. They were from the pressure and weight of all going on just above that area. And I hate to say this, they get worse when you push during labor. BUT . . . once I had my baby, they were gone relatively quickly within a couple of weeks. As big as they were . . . I'd not have thought they'd go away so fast.
Anyway, hang in there. We moms deserve a medal for what we go through!!
No haven't tried them yet, i'll give them a go!
Have you tried Tucks pads?