leave me alone!

[mommynumber3toB]

Im 25 weeks preg. And since I found out i cant stand to be affectionate with my boyfriend. Everything about him bugs me.  I dont want a kiss,hug or anything else for that matter.i love him and he's so sweet. Im hoping this is just my hormones. Anyone else have this going on?

[Shaynaruth]

I think I'm the opposite.  I want the affection all the time, and my husband is just like, "calm yourself!".  But it's just all about cuddles and hugs and kisses.  We've only been intimate once since conception and I'm almost 18 weeks (he's afraid to hurt me or the baby - ugh).  :-)

[mommynumber3toB]

Thanks ladies for the advice. Glad to hear this seems pretty much normal

[3bgirls15]

I have the same feelings! It's so frustrating because I want to love my husband and I really don't want to pull away, but every touch makes me irritated. It's so sad cuz even my 2 yr old snuggling me I can't stand which is the saddest thing. I know now (3rd pregnancy) that it will go away as soon as baby is born. My advice is to be open and tell your bf and to try and be as affectionate as you can. It would be hard for anyone to go through 9 months with their S.O. not liking them to be touched!

[Jaynie_3rd_baby]

Yes, same here. It's just hormones. Unfortunately, I don't feel like being affectionate from about 30 weeks to about 6 months after baby is born! I usually just try and bite my tongue and grin and bear it when my husband is getting grabby!

[jessijlb1229]

The same thing happened to me. It lasted about a month then things started to balance out again. Try not to be to mean to him. It can really hurt their feelings and cause stupid arguments. (Just from experience) Especially if ya'll were really affectionate before hand.

[jesshat]

Yeah I feel that way too. It's hormones. I just deal with it because he's my husband he can't help loving me and he backs of a lil when I'm pregnant because he never knows how I feel. I try not to be mean but some days I just want to hurt him when he's all grabbing me and what not... Lol

[susamor]

Yes, with my cat...