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[neebs26]

Feeling lost. I miss my mom and i wish she was here. I have no one to help me and the bills just keep piling up. I found out today that my sons medicaid raised his deductible to 2300. Hes sched for kidney surgery in august and i have no idea how i will pay for it. I swear i try so hard to do right and be an honest and caring person and i just cant get **** right. Im freaking out, im pregnant and have no one to help me but a husband who cant hold a job. Idk how people get by im sinking and im sinking fast

[RachelD29]

Im sorry too. :( no o e can ever replace a momma. Churches are a great place to start for that though!.  It may be a good start to getting away from being so overwhelmed.

[Cborrego]

Try talking to a social worker at a hospital or go to churches for help. There are lots of programs out there but you need to reach out to them so they can guide you to the right places. Wish I had more info for you....and if your husband can't step up to the plate & be more responsible, then sometimes it's just better to be alone. I'm sure you'll get more help as a single mother. Best luck to you & your children.

[cindy82]

How crazy!! I don't see why in the world they won't cover it.

[neebs26]

Thanks ladies. Yea he has medicaid but they sent me a letter saying i have "share cost" and they wont pay for anything less than 2300. Which means i have to pay for all of his ultrasounds and meds for his kidneys.  His last ultrasound was like 400. I just dont underatanf how they can do that. I mean i see people w food stamps anf wic and free care for their kids and my kid has mote needs than ut averagr baby

[cindy82]

Where do u live at? If in the states have you tried Medicaid if he's already on a program ask them for more help? Sounds like your husband needs to get his stuff strait if he can't hold a job. I'm sorry about your mom, I lost mine almost 2 yrs ago. June 29th will be her 2 year gone :(

[Miss_Golightly]

Oh honey I'm so sorry for what you are going thru. I'm sorry for your loss it has to be really hard to deal with. Wish i had advice for you sweetie. Hope things start looking up for you soon sending prayers your way.