another venting pregnant lady

[storyofjesi]

I'm bored out of my mind daily. I literally have nothing and no one to even share my misery with. I've already vented on here about my terrible cheating ex fiancé. Everyday I start out by trying to see the good in my situation and find things to do but I'm living with people and all of my belongings are with my ex. I have no money, job, or car...all lost in my move to get away from him and he's happily dating his mistress, with everything he could ask for. I just wish the bad guy didn't win this time and I wish he didn't shove it all in my face either. Ugh, if only I had something to distract me and the opportunity to enjoy my pregnancy. :(

[wickedxchick]

My boyfriend left me when I was 4 months pregnant six years ago. When I was six months my son failed the afp test. He was born with gastroschisis he had to stay 3months in the nicu all while I was heartbroken to make matters worst I had to deal w a dying baby everyday -he had to getblood tratransfusion. Worst time in my life. But  pulled through it. 7years laters im married to great dad who took my son under his wing when he was 2 and now we are excited with this new baby. I have a stable home with him with two dogs and are pretty good economically, as for my sons dad he lives in the living room with his mother and doesnt like to work. He changes job all the time - he has never seen his son only through an emai didnt even care to be there when I told him our son was dyingl. Im glad I didnt stay w him our lives wouldn't be the way they are now.We won!!  Have faith that things happend for a reason. You will see the light at the end of the tunnel. And you will win not him :)

[sillyLizzygirl]

I know how you feel hun. I was with my ex and we were great until I got pregnant. Then the shock of my life came. He was married (not divorced like I'd been told) and was going home to the wife and kids. I was devestated! Then a few months into my pregnancy I met this wonderful single dad with 2 kids and we hit it off amazing. He's not my baby's father but he's taken the role of partner and dad. He's gone to Dr appointments, is excited we're having a boy (he has 2 girls) and rubs my tummy while talking. I swear lil bub knows his voice, even when I'm just on the phone with him. We'll lay there side by side and he'll just kick and kick trying to get his attention. At least that's what I think.
Sorry for getting off subject, what I'm trying to say is it'll be his loss and there are special men out there that love their women even when their having another's child. And love the child like its their own. Don't stress and then go hit him where it hurts;his paycheck. :)
Stay strong mommy

[a23mckee]

Its hard but look at what an amazing mom youll be. Get government help and take child support asap so he wont win. Lets see him spoil his mistress when he has to pay you. Teach him you wont be taken for granite. Oh get cash assistance too they make him pay it back so je will have back child support and the baby isnt even born. I know im evil but some men deserve it. Not all but he does.

[shastas84]

I can feel you on the boredom. Being trapped in bed, I am constantly trying to stay "active". I do a lot of online research into what I may need/want for the baby. As for theex, I  have one of those. He's the father of my oldest 3. He pays 0 child support and has 0 contact, by his choice. I felt like you when he left for his mistress. Now I am remarried and have a wonderful husband who is awesome to all of my children. (If he heard me say my he would be upset. To him they're our) Now I know my ex is the one who lost. I have these amazing kids in my life and he doesn't. I win :)

[seh4531]

You do have the opportunity to enjoy your pregnancy. Believe me I understand what it's like when things go according to plan. My ex and I had been together for two years and on and off the last 6 months. When I told him I was pregnant he told me he was seeing someone and if I didn't abort then I would be selfish.

It's hard to be alone and pregnant. Especially whenI'm super sick, but I don't talk to him or ask him for anything. I just started my second trimester and I just feel bad that he's so selfish he will miss all the awesome moments.

Unfortunately I can't help with the boredom thing because I work and go to school full-time. I'm never bored. Lol