mean....

[lkaykirk]

I am a pretty mean pregnant lady. But to be fair people just annoy me!!! Had a conversation last night with hubby about while we are in the hospital and he said only a handful of people would actually come to visit and I said that there is one person that I really do NOT want to come visit. If she shows up I probably would be horribly mean and let her know that I do not like her!

Has anyone else become a mean pregnant lady or is it just me?

[lkaykirk]

That sounds nice!

[Jess6751]

Preaching to the choir. My boyfriend has a list of people who will not be allowed at the hospital until I say so. And best friend has basically been hired on as security if anybody showed up that wasn't wanted. My boyfriend will be the only one in delivery with me. I want it peaceful and I'm not a circus show.

[lkaykirk]

She creeps him out. And he thinks she is crazy. So he won't go near her. I just don't like her and I think I will just ignore her from now on. Thanks.

[susamor]

Worse case scenario if she shows up you can make up an excuse like the baby needs to nurse or sleep. I dont think you should tell her about your feelings, bc some girls will do it even more when you try to tell them what they cant do. Dont make her more important than what she really is. As long as your husband respects your feelings and keeps away friendship wise I think you're good.

[lkaykirk]

Thanks. He will be her supervisor soon and she thinks they are best friends and it's not right. So I will talk to him and then if she shows up and says something I will probably flip out.

[mommaDof3]

Tell her like it is and let her deal with it. If she is inappropriate towards your husband,  there is no reason to pretend to enjoy her company.  And don't worry about being mean, I get so bad that I can't even stand myself let alone anyone else who has no respect for me or my family,  but I can't stop it before it happens.  It's sad really lol.

[TylersMommy022415]

Since I've been pregnant I have been super mean! And the last 2 months of my pregnancy have been horrible! For some reason, my in laws get under my skin and on my nerves so badly! Especially my father in law. I just want to punch him in his face sometimes with some of the stuff he says and does. He's also pretty ignorant and thinks he's better than everyone else and I hate it. I'm getting mad talking about it that's how bad it has became!

[mjp0325]

Just let her deal. She's your friends friend...not yours. You don't have to be friends with all the people your friends are friends with. And if she's close as in "dating" then same thing. If all else discuss it with your friend and just say you don't want her around you.

[lkaykirk]

OK well the 1 person I'm not very nice to is a girl and I don't know her very well but she acts inappropriate towards my husband and it bugs me. It's hard for him to be mean and he has avoided being around her because of it but one of our best friends is close to her and I don't want her around me or my kids. How do I tell her without being horribly mean? Or should I just tell her like it is and just let her deal?

[lsjtifah]

My boyfriend is definitely ready for me to have our son. I'm a total B, mostly to him. I feel bad sometimes but he does dumb & aggravating stuff. Once the baby is born I'm going have to make it up to him

[saraj44]

I'm a pretty straight forward person when I'm not pregnant.  And now that I am 37 weeks pregnant I may come off agressive but I'm ok with that! If people make me upset I stand up and say something!

[Lop_Logan]

I think I am normal. I have noticed I get annoyed more often but now I pay attention to details and people are just plain dumb sometimes!!

[BabyWidmer]

I cry too but also get mad easily

[Dani_is_a_mommy]

Idk about mean but I've def become a cry baby It's aggravating oh well curse out whoever is upsetting you and blame it on the hormones lol

[BabyWidmer]

My husband can NOT wait till I have our baby. I am a straight up B. I hate everyone and dont shut my mouth about it.

[lkaykirk]

At least my hubby understands but then again my sisters are mean pregnant too.

[Cori2]

yes, i have indeed. i feel bad sumtimes but others i cant help myself. i hv people living in my home that i do not want here and i am a ***** because i do not want them here when my baby kums my hubby doesn't understand.