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10531551 tn?1412176460

miscarriage question please help if you can relate

I recently found out this past Tuesday that I had a miscarriage.  My husband and I are very sad of course and going through a difficult time. We talked and this has made us want a baby even more. This would have been my second child, we have a 3 year old son and we want to give him a brother or sister. I would like to know for those who have been through this, when did youastart trying again? And if you waited after your first cycle did you do anything to make ur period fome faster than 6 weeks?  Please keep us in your prayers our family really needs it..I don't get pregnant easily so any advice is appreciated. Thank you and God bless you ladies
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10531551 tn?1412176460
Thank you for your comments ladies.  Btw I was 7-8 weeks pregnant maybe earlier they were never able to get a heartbeat. And I naturally misscarried. I will wait for my cycle then try again and try when im ovulating. Praying for the best. This pregnancy wasn't planned but as soon as we found out we were happy and having to lose it just made us realize we want it even more. I will definitely keep taking my prenatal vitamins,  thank you all for commenting and God bless you all
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I found out I was pregnant in April this year mothers day I started bleeding hospital told me every thing was OK. 4days later they checked my hcg levels. My phone SAS shut off at the time. They were trying to call me go tell me I miscarried on mothers day but couldn't reach me. June 1st my phone was back on,the called and told me I didn't believe them for I was still nausea and nipples hurt. She said take a home test and u will see it will be negative. I took one was POSITIVE I went in she confirmed I had instantly got pregnant again after the miscarriage within 2weeks of bleeding. I'm now 22 weeks with a healthy little girl. Not everyone has to wait. When u have a cycle that means ur body has cleaned out and is ready (without medical health issues ) find when u ovulate and u can get pregnt at any time. Good luck
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My son is five years. I had a miscarrage last year and onother one on march this year.
My doctoe told me to not try to be prignant for 3 periods. Then after 6 monthes I am pregnant again.
Now, every day I has a nightmare that I lost the baby. I go to the bathroom and chick my self if I am bleeding or not..
The first misscarrage was 8 weeks, the second one, we did not hear a heart beet at week 8, but I was 12 week when my body relaes the baby.
I am 7 weekd now.
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I misscarried in Nov last year at 3 months and I know how hard it is. We waited about 5 months and now I'm pregnant at 28 weeks without complications :) I agree with taking prenatals before you try again. You want  your body to be as healthy as possible to greater your chances of a successful  pregnancy.  
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We miscarried at 15 weeks in February. I got pregnant in June. My doc said wait one full cycle before trying again, but I wasn't ready so we waited a bit longer (course we weren't officially trying yet this time but hey) - give yourself time to heal and go through all the emotions first. I was fine for a week or so then it hit me hard and it took me a few months to deal with it.
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Just wait til you get your first cycle..thats ehat my foc recommended when the same exact thing happen to me.im sorry for your lost..i also wanted to try asap and after a while i just stop trying and thats when i got pregnant and hoping and praying that i have a full term healthy baby on the way..best of luck and prayers to your family. Have faith and dont lose hope! I know its hard..
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