sex plz

[kirstylv23]

Hi all. Is anyone else having trouble getting sex off their partner?  I'm  38+5 now so not long. Why won't he give it up!!!???? We haven't had much sex throughout my pregnancy and I've been wanting it most of the time. I'm not so interested in starting labour, just want some for me lol

[3427545398348077607_952_5]

idk about all men but my bf is the opposite lol his sex drive is just like mine. My bf is loving it a lot and too me its even brought us closer

[jannahmre06]

I'm 30 weeks and haven't had much of a sex drive since week 10 lol it hurts me having sex, so that could be part of the problem why don't want it! My poor husband tries all the time, and i deny him but try to give it to him at least once a week bc i feel bad lol. Don't enjoy it but want to please him, so suck it up ha ha anyone else have bad pain when have sex! ?

[mari_83]

Oh wow, I thought I was the only one.i been wanting alot of sex, sadly hadn't have much. Currently 26 weeks n hubby says he loves me but doesn't give it up. I stopped asking for it.. I think it's been like a month without it... He always says he's scared because I've had 3 mi carriages in the past. But idk if it's that or just him.

[Firstxmom]

So no worries mama, it's not just you 2, there's a ton of us not having sex. :-(
Lol but we're so close and things will change again. Yay

[Firstxmom]

I'm also 35w 5d. Same issue with my man. He went to wanting it several times a day to nothing in months. Before it would upset me so much I would cry and he would just listen but now towards the end he's starting to open up more and admits the awkwardness for him. He's paranoid, swears she knows because the motion and says he feels her when his hands are on me and that he's terrified of poking her. My aunt helps with deliveries so gave him the talk and NOTHING seems to ease his mind. I'm FINALLY ok with it and don't let it bother me emotionally anymore. We cuddle and kiss a lot more.

[wyattsmom2015]

No problems for me, I think being pregnant with a boy has messed up my hormones because I want sex more than any young guy. I am thirty four weeks and very huge no exaggeration, it can be a little uncomfortable for me to have sex and I have to be talked into it. My husband is having no trouble still wanting sex and no trouble staying interested even though baby is so close by. He said he is not worried because baby is all closed up in there and can not see or feel anything. He tries yo convince me by saying the Rocky motion may help baby sleep better. Lol..

[JellybeanMama]

Thankfully, my hubby is on board with me and we try to have it pretty regularly. I am half way through the pregnancy, and even though he was a bit scared of hurting the baby at the beginning, the doctor reassured him it was okay to do it. No problems or complaints since, and my sex drive has been higher than usual during pregnancy. We both enjoy that part :)

[MissLo2015]

My sex drive has went up more in the third trimester as I thought I would want it less as for my husband he always wants to have sex everyday if im up for it lol I guess he's trying to get it now before baby gets here

[3rdNdone]

My sex drive has been up and down. I didn't want it during the first trimester because of morning sickness he did. In my second trimester I was always ready, he was only ready  50% of the time. I told him to take advantage of it then cause I don't think  I would be up to it in my third trimester and now that I'm in my sex drive has plummeted and he is always on. So we have been hit and miss.

[kirstylv23]

The more i push the issue the more he backs off.

[mrs_farris]

I wish I had this problem.  I have 0 sex drive, and it honestly seems like too much effort to try to get in the mood. I'm 36 weeks and cuddles and kisses are about all I can muster up the energy for.

[mj121712]

Same problem. My sex drive is always higher than my fiance. Im now 36weeks and 6 days and the entire pregnancy maybe we only have 7times of sex... i want sex please sometines we fight because of it. Grrrr

[bonnieella20]

He wanted it all the time up until 28 weeks or so. Now I can tell he feels weird about doing it so I dont push it but he will still occasionally

[rabeccarice]

Not my hubby its the opposite for us I don't want it but he wants it all the time. I'm only 13 weeks but I know for a fact he won't change this is our fourth and the bigger I get the more he wants it. I know sound weird

[DevDev024]

All men do this. White, black, brown, or green, they all become timid of sex.

[keaanddan03]

About to pull out a wip! Lol

[keaanddan03]

Thank YOU so much for posting this! My husband is also freaked out. He says he isnt afraid of the baby and he is still attracted to me and we cuddle a lot. But very little action:( it has to be one of these issues as our sex life was never an issue before...

[chloegc1023]

I'm with u on that.  I haven't been getting along too much with my hubby the last couple of weeks and u would think "make up sex" is in store, but no!  My hubby is like a camel, he could go on and on in the dry heat of the desert.  Oh, well..  at most I'll give an hj, just cuz I don't feel bad about initiating that at the very least..  Sad, right?  Yea, I know...lol.

[kirstylv23]

I can't remember the last time for me. Think its been 4times in 9 months

[1260014616841580350_57_5]

Having the same prob...smh...i mentioned it to my husband and try to remind him that there's no sex after baby first arrives anyway and still not much sex...every other day isnt enough.feeling sad now

[kirstylv23]

Hes  been paranoid all through this pregnancy as we had a mc before. Even the midwife has told him its ok to have sex and I've explained what is between his penis and babys head lol and still i get nothing. Surely he wants sex aswell

[koyama83]

My drive is always higher than his. It's frustrating.

[1470561010800216007_480_5]

I feel the same way @ 37 weeks im always wanting it and all he says is he is scared he is gonna put me into labor it makes me so nad.