no question just feeling down!

[aprilj93]

My family lives in southern California and I'm in Utah. .. my hubby family lives here. Every year there is some sort of drama between his family and someone doesn't want to talk to someone else around the holidays. I'm sick of the bs and I miss my family.

Last year I got to see my family for christmas but this year travel was not recommended because I would be 30 weeks and its a long distance. So to top off his family drama now my family is harping on me cause I won't be there. I'm not superwoman, how does everyone expect me to be there and deal with everything? Just frustrated

[aprilj93]

I usually don't say anything however it seems like even when we try to stay out of the argument people keep trying to drag us back in. Its not fair I just want out lol. I wish we lived by my family where holidays were happy! The one thing that makes it happy now is my daughter but we never stay home we always go to the inlaws at some point which is when the day just turns to crap

[sadiasaqib]

I can totally understand how u feel. My inlaws r exactly the same with the dramas and faces. Some one always has problem with someone.  Best thing is to relax your self stay away and dont say anything because the less u speak or gt involved the safer u r.