Thanks ladies. And i agree completely. Its like i told him when he asked me to abort. He gets to choose to be a parent, i already am a mommy in my eyes because i choose to carry my child in my body. I know i can do this alone i have a wonderful support system when i get away on wednesday. Just truly hurts he is being so mean and vindictive. I made it all his drcisions so i could make mine properly. An. Now he is punishing me. Im sorry you had to go thru that and thank you for sharing. Glad to know others can relate
Im in the same situation as you. I was with my childs Father for three years. He already has a son,he adores that little boy. So when I told him i was expecting and he told me he didn't want it. I was floored. Eight months later he hasnt been to a ultrasound or doctor's appointment. He even changed his number. When he calls, he always says he only has one child. That he will go to jail before he will ever be a father to my daughter. The first couple of months was horrible, I was so depressed. Finally, I realized that I had to be strong for my little girl and set a example for her. Its a shame she wont have a father, but then you realize she cant miss something she never have. Focus on yourself and your lil one. It will get a whole lot better :) good luck
I think the worse thing in a baby's life is a parent who doesn't them. You need to be strong and everything will be OK. He might come around after the little one is born. Sometimes its better to do it alone. I was a single mom for 9 years. It's hard, but its better than having someone around who resents the child. Keep your head up and all will work itself out.