sex after birth

[ericacrdn1]

My bf wants to have sex within the 40day of giving birth to our son cause he wants me to get prego fast for another baby. I don't mind but I know were supposed to wait..any thoughts..

[Rosie180]

Its really not healthy for your body. And the risk for miscarriages and other complications are high. Waiting six weeks won't kill you. Ultimately it is your choice, but you want to give your body and your baby a fighting chance. I have seen one two many parents decide to have children that close. They could handle it, that's not the problem. It was just too much for their bodies. Most miscarried a few times. Others messed up their bodies to the point that they were unable to have children again by the age of 38. My sister is one of them. Just really give yourself time to heal. But it is your choice and I wish you the best of luck

[HesComing]

I had my first in may of last year and got pregnant again in October ....
Everything is fine my way so far... I'm due July 30 , but everyone is different

[ericacrdn1]

I'm gunna talk with my doc so he knows as well..but were pretty firm on our choice

[ricoswifex30s]

Im neither yay or nay I'm neutral on this one I've seen good and bad things happen on this subject one thing i feel you should worry about having sex early is infection because even though you might not get stitches it's still an open and healing wound that semen may infect or even the moisture of the sexual activity can irritate u in there... Good luck

[ericacrdn1]

Well I no I'm not having sex with stitches still there if tearing occurs I know that much but I know were going to when stitches heal very nervous but I know what I'm getting into

[jasmin620]

i had my baby 2 weeks ago and the thought of me having sex again scares the crap out of me!! i cant imagine getting pregnant back to back the pain....ughhh!!