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some people! ugh!

I swear, some of my friends just don't understand what I'm going through.
I don't want to help you plan your stupid valentine's day for your girlfriend, I'm kind of busy planning my own damn baby shower! Thanks for your lack of HELP!

I'm so sick of these "friends" of mine who just take take take. What kind of ******** friendship is this where you only talk to me when you need help with your life? But any other time, we're total strangers? I'm 33 WEEKS PREGNANT. I'm kind of busy dealing with my own life right now.

Ugh, what is wrong with some people. My older sister said this is around the age where she started losing a lot of friends too. It's not like it's a super sad thing, it's just how it is.

And I'm cool with that. I don't need anymore self-centered people in my life. Especially when I'm going to have a baby who actually NEEDS me
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Thanks @joamb :). Hopefully once my daughter is born, I'll start making new friends with similar interests :)
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I sadly lost a lot of friends when I got married, I got married at 23 and a lot of my friends were not mature enough to understand why I wanted this lifestyle. They still wanted to party and be young and free, whereas I have always wanted to have a family and have my children young etc. Now that I am pregnant I have made some new friends with other mothers and people who have kids and similar interests. It's much easier having friends who have been through similar things etc. I would just say distance yourself from the users and you will find out who your true friends are as they will stick around for you no matter what.
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