childs father; doomsday.

[ProudMommyThree]

This can't be life. My bf just can't grow up!!! He's very supportive(goes to Dr appts, ultrasounds, checks on me often, etc.,) but he doesn't wanna man up. He has no job, no car, no motivation. & he's 27 years old(28 in January) but surrounds himself with guys that are teenagers or in their very early 20's. The immaturity is getting to me. I just wanna leave & never look back. I'm terrified of having a boy because my bf is no role model. I'd rather leave this guy than see him fail his self & this child. Ugh.

[rosealie23]

That's just being a guy..lol.. my husband is 30 and wants to play video games all day, he has been to my kids school like one time and I don't think he has ever been inside my youngest daughters school at all.

[ProudMommyThree]

Thanks YarySilva, I pray i find that right man, because I refuse to settle for this.
& Stephy3 I have talked to him plenty of times & I'm convinced he just tells me what I want to hear. He agrees with everything I say, but I have yet to see a change.

[stephy3]

If you love him talk to him. My fiance and I have a 5 year old and she is special needs.. Most people would think that would make him grow up but no... we also have a 2 year old and will have a baby in January.  He has grown up a lot over the years and now holds a great job and is great with the girls.  He still has childish moments but which man doesn't

[YaryMommy]

My ex didn't have it together at age 27 and until now I believe he's going to turn 32. Last thing I heard he's still without a car and nothing going on for himself.

I hope you find a hardworking man in the future, it's a wonderful blessing.

But yea I understand you.. Been there it's very disappointing and frustrating!! :/