more kids but he says no

[miszfulwilder]

okay so this is my first child but my boyfriend has four kids by other chiccs i want at least five or six but he said he only want three more it makes me feel some way but i know he has other kids and may not want more but i come from a big big family and want a lil big family too should i be upset about this or just let it go that he only want three more

[baby_love2014]

My fiance has 2 kids from 2 other women.  We don't have custody of either.  After i had my daughter three months ago, he got a vesectomy.  It kinda stinks because i wanted one more of my own,  but in reality,  i have 3 kids. Just because he doesn't have custody,  doesn't mean they don't exist. You're in a relationship,  they're your kids now too. One day the custody agreement may change. ..

[tt456wright]

Mine said no too but we decided to have this one im pregnant with now dont stress even though its hard not to I swore he wouldnt give me a baby but he proved me wrong have faith

[MamaMacMurtry]

Not having custody doesn't mean they're not expensive-in Vermont, child support can be up to 60% of your monthly income.

[miszfulwilder]

i know but he doesnt have custedy  of  any  of his children

[noides]

That's a lot of child support. I don't think you should be upset. If you're going to marry this man you've got to take his other children into consideration. Kids aren't cheap. Don't be selfish