were grown right?

[asmith21488]

I understand were all pregnant and hormonal but if someone doesnt agree with your opinion why throw a hissy fit? Yeah were here to support but if what youre posting sounds crazy you may get called on it...doesnt mean were not supportive just means were not sugar coating it....that is all

[SaSa28]

Mitch_14 you are sooo right. Thank you for posting your coment.

[clauwale22]

I think some people here get mixed up with the weeks and age forums... young people have alot to mature, people in their 30 and above I think we take things more serious and have more experiences. At the end we are all women and should help each other!! =)

[mitch_14]

I find when people get upset when you give your opinion on their comments or rants whatever they want to call them it is usually because you struck a nerve and they know you are right and they are wrong but they don't want to admit it. All you can do is shake your head and laugh at people like that the more they lash out the more pity I feel for them they most be very unhappy people to be so angry

[worried_mommy213]

I agree, when you post and want others opinion yous should expect to get their opinion. Which means it may not be what you want to hear, I don't like being ugly and rude. There's no point in stressing myself or baby out, to get so upset with SOMEONE ELSE'S situation or the way they are handling it. If I do post a question or post a vent its because I want to hear from other mommies to be and know that I am not alone. But if no one agrees with me, why get upset? Maybe I can see it from another point of view, I don't want things sugar coated. If I did, I'd ask a friend or family member  who already agrees with me lol. This site has been a great help for me, yes some people are just down right mean. But this is the internet so what can we really expect? lol. I've decided not to let ugly attitudes get the best of me, they are the ones who are choosing to carry around anger. I just wish them luck and hope for the best, because at the end of the day. Their life and my life will go on, and a petty online argument will not change anything in either of our real worlds. :)  

[Jaja65]

It's ridiculous I just laugh and continue to speak my mind...who cares? I don't get rude with ppl unless they get rude with me. If you post something I've experienced I'm going to say something that's what this forum is for....these ladies really get upset when you say something that's not what they wanted to hear....if you don't want an opinion here's a clue on how NOT to get one DONT POST!

[abbb01]

I try to be nice about what I post I wouldn't say sugar coat but most certainly respectfully give my input with the information I understand from the other persons post. I try to say just what I would do in that situation or a experience ive had similar but by no means telling the other person they should do it. But some ppl will still take offense no matter and I learned in middle school to let ppls dislike for me to let that **** roll off my back

[newluv]

I agree. Someome made a post about smoking weed throughout pregnancy, someone spoke out, and the child lashed out against her. Some people on here show that they have a great lack of guidance in their life. If you dont want criticism, don't post ridiculous mess like that.

[abbb01]

Yep

[asmith21488]

Good luck with your situation....no one was rude to you they stated their opinions and you jumped all over them....hope it works out for you

[prego1980]

Yes we're grown here,but does that mean we don't have to be mindful of how we speak to eachother? It's not about sugar coating anything its about respecting other ppls posts..and not saying anything you wouldn't want someone to say back to you.. every post I've commented on has been encouraging and helpful..