YAH for the fact that he will be home for the delivery. My hubby is military and there are curently 5 men who work with him who's wives are all preg now too. There is also one female who is preg that he works with. The had a meeting last week and his boss told them that they will ALL be present for their child's birth. She is a strong believer in family and will ensure that each of the guys takes on responsibilities to ensure that this will happen. Good thing all the women are at different stages of their preg. Hubby will be in Afghanistan for Jan-Feb and some of March and I am due April 1. Good timing if all goes as planned. Thank goodness this is reality and not a dream :)
I've been having all sorts of crazy dreams..Ive had two delivery dreams & both times its been a girl & my boyfriend has been no where to be seen. He travels a lot for work so I think this is contributing to that. Hopefully he is actually present for the birth!
I had some crazy dreams before I even got my BFP! That was what actually made me start thinking the IUI might have worked! And I wouldn't worry about the dreams about your husband. They're not pleasant, but nothing really to do with him. I do understand why you would feel hurt by it though...they seem so real!