All the people who tell women to leave the cheaters.. its easier said than done!! You have to make the decision on your own, when you just can't do it anymore, or if you spend all the time your with him thinking about him with someone else, I've been there girl!!! Found out my boyfriend of 3 yrs was a father of 3 a week before I was giving birth to our "1st child"... they r from a precvious relationship but its still a hugeeee lie and I was decieved n it hurts to know.. and its ****** up he hasn't been there for those kids the entire time he's been with me... ughhh lol good luck girl
That I do understand but I understand that ppl makes mistakes too...So i've been fightin for an answer because I do love him and he has been a wonderful bf. I've really been thinking about giving him a second chance and layin down the rules and definitely makin it clear that if it every happen again Im not gonna ask who,when,where, how or why, I'm just gonna give him my *** to kiss. But I'm really scared cause this hurt and I don't wanna go through it again...So IDK We all make mistakes
Sorry you are going through this but the main concern and issue here is "Do you really want to be with a guy who does this"...I would have run the other way REAL fast and let the door hit his azz on the way out.
Him and baby mama can have a great life...
Thanks SO much...Im trying to be strong, but my heart hurts so much...So do think I should get him to ask her when was her LMP?
I am so sorry that you are in this situation, this can't be very nice for you to be dealing with.
Obviously, you don't know the ins and outs of her cycle but generally, based on the information you have put above, the first day of LMP would have been 15th February and with a due date of 22nd November that means conception would have been approximately 1st March (based on a 28 day cycle). On a 28 day cycle, conception on 19th February would mean EDD of 12th November.
Sperm can survive for a few days so based on the average cycle etc I would say it is of course possible but it is unlikely based on the dates.
Best of luck hun
Jo