Have you tried to up your iron intake? As women we tend to run a little anemic, but pregnancy causes most of us to become even more iron deficient. You can either take more iron via vitamins (I take a raw iron supplement sold at Whole Foods) and/or start upping the amount of leafy greens your are eating. One way to do that is to drink green smoothies. I add dandelions greens, spinach and kale to my daily smoothie. You would be surprised, but even with carrying twins I am not feeling tired at all and I am almost 36 weeks- anything that may help with worth a try!
I know, my husband is not good at the planning stuff. I doubt washing clothes/blankets/bedding has even crossed his mind! he doesn't do much around the house either unless I ask, but I have been pushing my luck asking him to do more since I am so huge and I think he feels sorry for me :)
Work is work, I have meetings all the time and i work one on one with patients all day talking, so by the end of the day I have NO brain power left!