Drive to the hospital :-(

[Miszydd]

So I don't know what to do anymore, all my husband has been doing is drinking. Everyday drinks.. I'm so sick of it! Now that I'm so close to my due date I'm scared, if I go into labor who is going to drive me to the hospital?.. my hospital of where I am delivering is kinda far. Ugh sorry rant..

[Miszydd]

Yea that's so true. I'm a vert independent person ans I'm having a real huge issue not being able to support myself right now.. and for the few months to come. It's driving me crazy lol. I told him that if he even smells like alcohol when I give birth he will not be in the room with me and he won't sign her birth certificate lol thanks katie_1989 lol and thank you ladies.. this has just been irritating the heck out of me.

[Marpn12]

I take care of everything**

[Marpn12]

I gave up on the guide and support a long time ago. That's why how things are in our family I don't apart everything which is in my control and all he does is work and sometimes I prefer it that way cause then I know thing get done to my expectations.

[Miszydd]

It's just so frustrating ugh... Men suck at times. It's sad because they are there to be your support and to guide you threw these times.

[katie_1989]

I told my bf if he is drunk he wont be allowed in my hospital room and i am depending on him for that day. A cpl weeks ago was his last 'hurrah' with his friends and getting wasted. He still has a cpl drinks.. like right now.. but nothing that will impair his judgement or driving. Definitely talk to him and tell him whats up. Its not fair or safe.

[mychellefemme]

Ambulance is kind of expensive depending on your insurance. That may be the safest way to go.

[Marpn12]

I know how you feel can't rely  on him. But if you keep close watch on your body you could perhaps  drive yourself or be in the area if you feel it starting. I can't rely on my SO just cause well not only drink g which he does everyday too but also cause  he's the only one who works so if I happen to start labor during the day I'm gonna have to drive myself with my other kids and meet him there. I'm not gonna wait to he gets home and changed and whatnot. If it happens to be on a weekend or evening and he's been drinking I'm gonna  still drive us all there.

[harley303]

Oh thats not good hun. I feel for you. All my boyfriend does is get in from work and have a few beers. Im 18 days away from being due.. drives me nuts. Have you shared your concerns with him? Iv told my boyfriend that from next week there will be no more alcohol in the house until our little man is due!
Hope it all works out x