help bleeding

[jojosheree]

Okay so I'm about 13 weeks and me and my boyfriend were having sex and I started bleeding is this normal!?!?

[mommy2b8_15]

Yeah that happened to me (so scary!) and now my hubby (bless his heart) wants us to wait for that first trimester to be over before we make love again. If your bf can respect that it would prob best.

[Cassie_rondo]

Rough sex is a no no during pregnancy.  Relax. At least wait till your past your 1st trimester.

[kathrynt]

Doesn't  have to be rough any irritation  to the cervix  can cause it to bleed if your partner is... well endowed... and your going deep its sure to irritatethe cervix. So i would say take it easy not so deep or um forceful good luck

[Angelica2015]

That's great news! Happy to hear everything is alright, I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months! :)

[jojosheree]

Thanks for the input everyone! I got into the doctor and got checked out and heard babies heartbeat at 165. Apparently it happens to a lot of women my cervix was bleeding from sex. Crazy it wasnt even rough sex either!! But oh well it is what it is as long as my baby is okau

[Cass_plus_one]

Perhaps not having quite so rough sex would be idea.

[Angelica2015]

Yeah just take some deep breaths. I'm sure it's just from the sex, but your mind won't ease until you see a doctor so I would be stern with them and tell them you need to be seen. Its your baby And your right to know what's going on so I would get in to the doctor as soon as you can so that you can rest easy.

[jojosheree]

I talked to a nurse and she said its a common thing that happens but still is scary! She told me to call back in a few hrs to follow up and if im still bleeding to come in. Theres still some blood but I've just been trying to relax. Still a bit uneasy about it..

[Angelica2015]

Not to alarm you, but I agree with the other woman. If it was a good amount, and bright red I would go to the emergency room if you can't get a hold of your doctor. But Keep trying to call your doctor and see if they can squeeze you in today as emergency room visits are costly. Are you still bleeding by the way or has it stopped?

[jojosheree]

Id say it was kind of rough and he was going pretty deep. It was quite a bit blood but I dont have any cramping or anything. Im just scared. Tried to call my doctor but no answer even when i pressed it was an emergencu

[Cass_plus_one]

Were you having rough sex? Or just normal......how do you say... Soft making love sex?  Is it bright red or just light pink? Is it filling a pad or just a few drops? I would say if it bright red and filling a pad you need to be seen. If it light pink and just a bit . Wait till it stops and have soft sex . Bring it up to you doctors at the nest appointment