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[babygirl0905]

Does anyone else just feel huge and absolutely disgusting?? Is it uncomfortable to have sex with your partner because of it??? My husband doesn't really help the fact that my self confidence is shot if he gets horny he just watches porn and jacks off. And it hurts my feelings cause I don't satisfy him any more he watches other woman get naked and enjoys it. Ithurts cause I can't any more I'm so tired of all these emotions and bring pregnant

[babygirl0905]

Thanks everyone its good to know I'm not alone. I talked to him and told him how I felt and he told me he loved me and I am very sexy and he isn't going to watch porn any more all day yesterday he told me how beautiful I am or sexy or gorgeous it feels better now to hear it from him that he still feels that way although I don't see it

[hamburger94]

My boyfriend tells me all the time that he likes my preggo belly and that he finds it sexy. It makes me feel weird because I feel really unsexy but I let him tell me anyways. My sex drive hasn't been very high but sometimes I just let him have his fun with me even though I don't enjoy it as much as him. As for the porn you HAVE to tell him how you truly feel about that or else he won't know it bothers you. I went the longest time before I broke down crying bc I found out he wacked off to porn once more and once I told him how I felt he finally understood my side and stopped doing it.

[xojensen_]

Sometimes I'm just way too lazy to put effort into having sex yet I want it ahaha we mostly do it in the spooning position so the belly isn't in the way

[Liske]

There are other ways to satisfy each other without penetration. I actually read somewhere orgasms while being pregnant are good for you.

My husband and i have less sex too, mainly he is less active about it, i have to initiate. He still gets excited by me, so i think it's just a bit weird for him. It is a bit weird for me too, baby likes to join in when we cuddle, which makes foreplay/getting in the mood a bit difficult lol. Luckily once the action really starts, the baby gets quiet. And sex is more uncomfy due to the big belly, but we manage.

I do agree that you should tell your husband how him watching porn and only satisfying himself makes you feel. And if that doesn't work, try satisfying yourself right there next to him. It'll definitely get his attention, and my husband would practically jump me if i did that lol. And if not, atleast you got to enjoy yourself too.

[Shaynaruth]

My husband and I have only had sex once since I got pregnant and I am 32 weeks.  He says I'm beautiful, and he wants me, but he's afraid to hurt me because the one time we did have sex, it was painful for me.  I think he and I have both come to terms that the next time we do have sex will be after the baby is born and I am cleared.  Lol... As much as I love sex, I have a feeling that waiting THIS long is going to drive us absolutely crazy later on (in a good way) *wink*

[ymendoza86]

How funny i was just talking to my husband about that...we haven't had sex in almost a month...i asked him im i that fat and ugly but he said it's just uncomfortable for him because I'm pregnant but with my other 2 pregnacies we never had this problem. Maybe because i was bigger when i got pregnant and now i have gained 17 lbs. It hurt me so much he told me that.

[chantanmore]

It's hard my hubby finds me even more sexy he even said it right in the middle  of sexy but yet I fell so gross I was lossing weight  befor I got pregnant  because I was feeling like that so now that iam growing it's not helping  ...and as for the porn  part have u told him how it makes u feel sometimes they don't uess the head they should when it comes to feeling