kicked out the father

[amandaportera]

Currently 32 weeks and what should he my fiance decided to quit his job a week later his sister gives him a car to pay monthly on.. Gets it inspected and takes off.. Not telling me bye not saying where Hes going or what Hes doing not to mention had even done this a few times before he got the car... But I've decided enough is enough. I can't sit here all stressed out Cuz he wants to vanish and think its OK. I'm here with his kid due in 6 weeks and I let him know Hes not welcome at my house and needs to set arrangements to get his stuff. I come to find out he is back at his baby mothers house with her and her 4 kids two of which are his. But to not tell me that ur going to see your kids is shady and messed up. I deserve to know what Hes up to. The woman he was with her for 9 years and they split 4 Yrs ago.. Me and him are just past 2 yrs of being together and well I am not officially considering myself a single mother with a soon to be first time mother with a neeborn I need some good vibes

[InaraO]

Can relate only 200 percent only this is my 3rd baby and this gutless man is my husband. He has left the country.. To death do us part. (Unless I feel like being a tomcat) then we will part.

[Whyme1116]

You can do it, Im so glad my daughters father was never in the picture to begin with....barely....and not that I wished it or am glad, but he ended up passing away 2 years ago....my daughter is better off because he was a POS and would try to come back around every once in a while....she would get excited and then get let down. She is soooo much better off and your baby will be too!!!

[Mimilove3]

He did u a favor by showing his true self. U can do it! You'll have ur babies unconditional love to keep u going strong.

[zarazara]

That guy is clearly very irresponsible and careless. Its also clear that he will serve you a lot of **** and its better to give your child a good start i  life,rather than being with such an irresponsible father who your not sure when else he will "run away"

[MarissaBaby_2]

I'm so sorry to hear the situation your going through. But my advice is stay strong and you can do it alone. I was with my son's sperm donor for 4 years and 2 weeks after I had my son I left him, he always cheated on me and abused me physically, mentally and emotionally. We don't need to put ourself through that stress. In the end it's HIM missing out on the best thing (his child's life and watching baby grow) . I call him dad a sperm donor because my son is gonna be 4 years old on June 20th, (9 days from now)& he has never been involved in his life. My boyfriend now I have been with for 3 years and he's the father figure to my son. You will find someone that deserves you, and someone that won't walk out on you when ever they please and feel it's okay to come back when they please. Don't let him walk all over you. Your baby will need alllllll your attention once he/she is born. Best of luck. Remember don't give in.

[amandaportera]

I am now* considering myself single.***