Thanks. I was able to sit and relax for a couple hours this morning and felt a few kicks in my lower ab area. And then about an hour later I felt a punch in my upper tummy area. What a day to feek the first movements and plenty of them.
I also have a job that kieeps me on my feet quite a bit and i don'f fell my little guy move when I'm up and moving around. When I feel him the most is when I finally get to sit down for a couple of minutes that is when he really gives me a good few kicks. What you may need to do is sit in a quiet room and try to be relaxed, you should start to feel your little one move. As long as you feel the baby now and again I don't think you should have that much to worry about. You need to try to have a little bonding time with your little one even while their in the womb. And as for the tightening of the stomach that is completely normal, it's your body's way of practicing for labor.
Congradulations!!!