Do I sound needy???

[Caseywestberg]

Hi ladies, I'm 36 weeks& 3 days, this is my first pregnancy! Lately I've been getting so upset because I wish I can just be with my fiance all the time, I know he has work and is doing stuff but I also get frustrated because he will go out and he could do whatever he wants with his friends but I can't I mean obviously. We don't live with each other yet so that's another thing, everyday he has off I wish he would just spend with me. Am I that boring? Like tonight he's out at the casino drinking.. I mean I don't care but I guess I just get a little jealous. I wish I can do things sometimes but it is what it is and I know I'll be so happy when my daughters here. All I would love to do with him right now is cuddle up against him, it is close to my due date too so maybe that's why I'm getting this way. I don't know

[TMMB]

Sorry you are going through this:(. I just have to say that you don't sound needy at all to me. Truth is, we are meant to live with our partners and share our lives with them, and for whatever reason, that is not happening with you right now. So, I don't know what your plans are or when you intend on getting married, but I would say, in the meantime, try to keep busy, build your own social support group, if possible. Keep eyes on the prize, and keep busy. Very important.

[hheinzeroth]

He sounds a little selfish, rather than you sounding needy. What happens when your little girl gets here? Is he going to be out drinking with the boys all the time or home taking care of his responsibilities? I hope it's just him trying to get it all out of his system before the baby gets here. I would calmly and rationaly explain how you feel to him and see if maybe he is just not thinking. Sometimes, we think guys think things through like women do, and that's just not the case, lol. Men's minds are much simpler than ours and they often don't think of the ramifications of their actions. Just have a heart to heart with him and ask him to stay home with you sometimes.