You are definitely already a mom! Don't let these other ladies tell you that you aren't. My husband got me a card and I got him a card even though this is our first. It was nothing special, but next year will be so much more fun! :)
I spent the day with my man and he said happy mothers day. I personally didn't expect anything, but his mom and sister and my bff bought me flowers and a Teddy bear. I said happy father's day to him and gave him somthing special in the bedroom but it wasn't about presents.
My husband and I are expecting our 3rd on mothers Day the kids had made art work at school so my husband thought he was off the hook then took us out to lunch.. Then fathers day he had the nerve to hint at a gift he wanted.. I gave in and got him something he really needed and had the kids make him cards..
My bf told me happy mothers day but did not get me anything, since our baby is not born but i thought at least a card would have been cute. I told him happy father's day and bought him a couple gifts anyways, even though this will be his first child as well. I think it would have been a nice jester on his part but most guys don't think that way
You aren't a mom yet. He's already a dad. It's not complicated.