When Did I Conceive? Who Is The Father?

[SoonToBeMamaOf3]

Hello, everyone! Let me just get right to the point.

I am currently pregnant with my third baby! My due date is December 5 and they have given me a December 7 due date as well.

I sleep with my husband without protection because we have been talking about having a baby since last year 2015. Unfortunately, I was not getting pregnant because he was doing too much coke, and smoking too much weed (I think that's why I wasn't getting pregnant). I don't get pregnant so the conversations of having a baby kinda faded. He also slowed down doing so much drugs. Well come the week of FEBRUARY 29 - MARCH 4 I had my last period (my cycle is regular 28 days). My husband and I have unprotected sex ALL the time, but I slept with someone else (because I made a mistake while me and my husband we having an argument) on MARCH 12, maybe considered MARCH 13, since it was in the middle of the night, without protection. Please keep in mind that this guy did not have a condom on, but he pulled out. He was not drunk and I even asked if he nutted in me a little and he said "hell no". That same day I slept with my husband and of course he ejaculated all inside of me like he ALWAYS DOES.

Last week, MAY 2, 2016 my baby was measuring 10 weeks 1 day. SOOOO, according to my ultrasound of last week, I am 11 weeks 3 day pregnant today MAY 11, 2016

MAY 14 would barely make it 9 WEEKS since I slept with the other guy. Could it be possible that the baby is his?

Please help me! I am having a very horrible pregnancy as it is, but could never confide in my husband about it because I cheated. It would break his heart. I feel like it is his but I would like to know everyone's opinion.

Thank you so much!

[MmmMama1213]

If you slept with both guys on the same day there's no way to know who the father is until the baby is born and you do a paternity test. You should tell both your husband and this other guy that you will be needing to prove paternity for this child. I also recommend that the 3 of you go get screened for STDs. Your doctor should check for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, HIV, & HEP B automatically but I'd also request an HPV check.  You don't really want an STD while pregnant/during delivery.