baby's father

[brittanyhinch]

Anyone else having issues? It seems like every time I turn around,  it's something else...

[BeyondUnique2]

Its crazy while I'm pregnant plenty of men try's to get my attention.  Its just me' I feel like its not a good time. I also need my time to focus on my plans. I honestly think its nasty that another man would want to be attracted to me while I'm pregnant.  But call me crazy! That's more of a reason to know someone is out their for you when you at least expect it. Yes I might just talk to them just to get my mind off the foul but I will not take it personal. Its nothing wrong with having friends. My opinion take the time out to beautify yourself. Don't loose you in the baby process. And if he is worth it he will wait & let the next man prove his self to you! Next never rush love or a family man.  If the next man comes along he will have it naturally.

[teeteeee]

Your message was really something 2 think about because I'm going through somethings with the father of my child and this is my first child and he hasn't been here for me at all I feel alone. But like you said I need to focus on me and my child.

[BeyondUnique2]

Another thing don't be sad because your child inside of you feels everything you do. Don't cry if you put your hands on your belly the baby can also cry inside of you. You can feel the vibration. If you need to just walk away & focus on your next move to make you & your baby's life better. If you need counseling talk to someone & pray about it. Prayer changes things.

[BeyondUnique2]

Don't let the devil steal your joy! Some men act like their carrying the baby & feeling the emotions. I just treat him just like he treats me & at the same time don't pay him any attention. I let him know this pregnancy is temporary & things can get real. He tries to be nice & I don't let him get to me. Sometimes I realized when you need a person the most at your most weakest point & they start acting up" sometimes you have to fall back & live for you & your child. If its meant to be it will happen natural. If not God made plenty of men. Right now its just a test to see how strong you are & besides your baby is a blessing & the baby will love you. Just wait on your child!