Zero Sex Drive (not a question)

[laurawr_madeline]

So I'm 27+2 and have had zero sex drive right from the get go.
I try to force myself to have sex and even worse, force myself to enjoy it but I just can't. My fiance has been amazing at not pressuring me or anything but I know he wants to be intimate a lot more than what we are.
I just can't get myself to be even remotely interested in having sex.
I feel absolutely horrible knowing he has his needs and that I just can't give it to him :(
He knows that I'm completely against porn so hasn't resorted to it but its just one of those things where I wish I could please him and satisfy him but with no sex drive its so hard to have to force myself to do something which I'm not interested in doing.

So frustrated :(

[laurawr_madeline]

@Naleana...
You may think that it's overbearing but I don't believe so. You're entitled to your opinion but so am I. He respects the fact that I don't like porn therefore it's also his choice to not watch or look at it in respect of me. I'm against porn, I haven't "forbidded" him to do anything. As I said, he chooses not to because he respects my beliefs, opinions and feelings towards it.

[jamieL3]

I have 2 girls and this 1 is a boy. I lost my drive with all 3 and I have had a horrible sex drive since I lost it in my first pregnancy. I'm really hoping that after this baby I will get it back. This is our last child too. I really feel bad for my husband.

[Naleana]

I have zero sex drive but I think it's kind of overbearing to forbid your husband to look at porn I mean he needs release I'm all for my husband looking at porn when I'm not in the mood for sex. When im not pregnant we sometimes look at porn together it can be rather awesome

[mommysoon2b]

I have no sex drive at all either and I'm having a boy:)

[laurawr_madeline]

Thanks ladies! I'm not worried about bleeding or hurting the baby or anything just absolutely no drive and it *****! He makes comments about it which make me feel like a failure to pleasure but I just can't get myself to do it. Eugh :(
I'm just wondering if its because we were trying to conceive for 12 months and had sex so much that I'm now just over it? Haha
And bubby is a surprise so could very well be a boy! Never thought of that :)

Not long to go for us all now! How exciting! Congratulations and the best of luck to you all xxoo

[BonitaMichelle]

Are any of you women having boys?  I lost my sex drive around 10 weeks and thats when I knew I was having a boy. Way to much testosterone for me.

[lunap22]

Same here. Zero. Zilch. Nada. No sex drive, which is terrible cause I've always been the active one. Now whenever we have sex, I start braxton hicks a few hours later. The good news is we have 89 days left :)

[kerraayy]

Same feelings over here!  I have no sex drive and also worry about bleeding or something. ... probably unnecessarily but I can't help it!  We do "other things" and that helps keep him happy. Looking forward to being a stay at home mom after this pregnancy to hopefully get back on track with it all!  Good luck to you!  Hang in there!   July is just around the corner!   :) a happy and healthy pregnancy for you!   :)